@BCH I think you need to account for expectations in determining whether black is for you. Appreciate that there's a spectrum between sparkling clean and nasty, dirty. Where on that spectrum can you comfortably live? Maybe keep an eye out for black cars/trucks this week, assess how dirty they look, and whether or not that's too dirty for you. For me, a wash a week keeps my truck looking good enough for me. Being in Louisiana, you don't have to worry about snow and a fall/winter/spring of a constantly dirty truck.
I don't think ceramic is a waste if you're going to run it through touchless car washes. Ceramic has the same benefits either way - whether you wash it in an automatic car wash or wash it using a 9 bucket method, with soap extracted from Belgian monk foot sweat, a wash mitt made from their back hair, and while chanting Latin car cleaning mantras.