I'm in the opposite boat as you. I've got 3 car seats in the back and about 500lbs of tools/gear/etc in the trunk. Could careless about shaving weight. I want everything + the kitchen sink in my truck. If i get stuck, I've got a winch, traction boards, tow strap, tire grabbers, dead-man, d-rings, soft shackles, snatch block, etc. If there's a trail I need to trim, i've got 3 machetes, hatchets, elec chainsaw/etc (just used all these things last wknd as we were stuck in an atv trail lol)
And if you do a lot of off-roading (my guess is no), you'll never believe the difference in ride btwn stock 35s and 37s.